
From this ⬆️
…………………to THIS!!! ➡️
By Betsie Poinsett, Clinical Hypnotherapist

Several months ago, a new client called me to ask if I could help her. She was crying so hard I could hardly understand her. Her husband of 30 years had found someone else and wanted a divorce. She was devastated.
She made an appointment to see me and came to my office for her first appointment. I always start clients out with three sessions to establish a good foundation for change. In the first session we talk a lot so I can get a background of what they need to work on. She was still very emotional telling me that he had moved out and they were in the process of dividing up their estate. Her daughter lived in another city and had a rental house that my client could move into; she had met with a divorce attorney and was making plans to proceed.
During the second session, she was still crying and very emotional telling me that they were going ahead with the divorce. Hypnotherapy sessions really help clients to release all their stress, calm them down so that they can think clearly and not be so overwhelmed. I knew that would really help her feel better. We also discussed some self-help books she could read and to also pray to her angels and guides for their help.
THEN when she came in for the third session, I said “hello”, we were just chatting and she said: WE ARE GETTING BACK TOGETHER!!!! It was like a miracle! They still loved each other and wanted to heal, work through what had happened and have a stronger marriage.
We then started Couples Therapy where they both came to see me so we could talk about how to repair and have an even better relationship. The first thing I asked them to do was to write down things they would like to do to move forward. Things to let go of and things to enhance their relationship.
Many other things were discussed and an open dialogue was encouraged for a deep healing to take place. One powerful healing exercise is called “The Hopopono Prayer” from Hawaii. They stood and faced each other, each putting their hand on the others heart saying: I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you.
The thought of renewing their Wedding Vows had been on my mind, so I mentioned it! They loved the idea and had been thinking about it, too. I am an ordained minister so we have made a plan to do the ceremony on their anniversary, September 2nd.
It’s such a touching story from complete despair to renewing their vows. I am so happy for them.!